3-month update

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Posted by Mandy | Posted in baby boy | Posted on 31-01-2012

I suppose I should make these things monthly updates instead of weekly since we’ve hit the point where no one except mommies count in weeks anymore. However, I do have to say the little guy has developed a lot of new skills since the 12-week update! I’m pretty impressed. All right, where to start…

Sleep: Sleep’s still going well. We hit a new record of 9 1/2 hours last night, actually! Mommy on the other hand is hitting sleep regression. SIDS anxiety is getting to me. Regardless; he sleeps anywhere from 7 – 9 1/2 hours at night, then is up for 2 hours, then takes a nap, then is up another 2 – 2 1/2 hours, then takes another nap and then might be up for the remainder of the day or take another (short) nap around 5pm. Pretty predictable, right? Love it. Hope it keeps up. *knock on wood* The last awake stretch can last 5-7 hours and is sometimes exhausting (he gets cranky when he’s tired), but since daddy is around for it, we share the task of cheering him up.

Physical Skills: Something I’ve been getting a little worried about is finally a non-issue! Little man is starting to get mobile. Tummy time (on the playmet!) is suddenly not torturous anymore, and he’s actually interested in the pictures on the mat. Since he’s been completely hating tummy time that didn’t take place on my tummy until about 2 days ago, that’s a pretty huge step. I know that his neck muscles have been getting better since he’s been keeping his head up like a champ on my tummy, but the fact that he doesn’t mind doing it on his mat now is very reassuring.

He hasn’t done a full tummy-to-back roll yet, but he’s very close to it. Last time I helped him do it I barely touched him, so hopefully we’re getting close there. When he’s on his back on me or the couch, he rolls over to his tummy with ease. He does roll from his back to his side on a completely flat surface, but hasn’t rolled over all the way on flat ground yet.

He also always has his legs way up in the air. He’s been starting to touch his own feet, but he doesn’t pull them into his mouth yet or anything. Still, I think he’s starting to get interested in them and realize they’re part of him.

He grabs and holds toys like a champ. I’m always late in getting out the camera, but this illustrates it pretty well:

And yes, there’s tons of toys and blankets in his crib since I only have him in it to play right now. I’m kinda trying to get him used to it… maybe we’ll try a nap in there soon.

Mental Development: He’s definitely making leaps here. He’s interested in *everything*. Daddy and I top the list, but all his toys and teddies aren’t far behind. If you put a toy in front of him, he’ll carefully touch it, then try to hold it, then try to put it in his mouth. He’s also starting to figure out some “if-then” sequences. As example, we have a Baby Einstein music box toy. When you push the big button on it, it’ll start playing music or change the tune. For a few days, I showed him how it works by taking his hand and pushing the button with it. Now, he does it himself. He doesn’t always succeed since the button takes quite a bit of force to push and you need to push in the very middle of it, but he knows what it does and how to do it.

He still talks literally all day long. When he wakes up from a nap, he babbles. When he eats, he babbles (and gives himself hiccups by doing it). When I (or anyone else) talks to him, he talks back. I did a video chat with my parents the other day, and for the entire half hour the boy would not shut up. He also pushed his music box 4 times and held Sophie all by himself for minutes. Of course, they were thrilled. I swear he knows when people are watching. Our neighbors stopped by the other day and he smiled at them, rolled over twice and talked. Little show off.

Other than that.. well, absolutely everything still goes into his mouth. His favorite thing to have in his mouth is his fist. He’ll settle for a few fingers too if the whole fist won’t fit.

He’s still very amiable on the whole. When he cries, I can usually calm him down within a minute. *knock on wood* We get smiles, squeals, laughs a-plenty every day and it makes my heart melt. The last three months, without a doubt, have been the best of my life.

Three Months Postpartum Update

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Posted by Mandy | Posted in life as mommy, postpartum | Posted on 30-01-2012

I’ve been avoiding this post, I really have… but what’s the point, really? It is what it is.

I’ve not been so lucky as it seems most of the recently-turned-mommy bloggers that I follow are. At three months postpartum, I’ve lost 35 pounds of the glorious pregnancy-60 I gained. I know, you’re not impressed. Neither am I. When I realized I’d gained 60, I figured “hey, I’m breastfeeding anyway, that’ll help me lose a lot!” Foiled. Stopped breastfeeding 3 weeks in due to low supply. Then I figured “Well, I stopped breastfeeding, now I can diet!” and so I have. At a pace of about 1 pound per week on a fairly strict diet, all the while lugging around a 15-pound baby.

It could be worse really, I’m seeing a consistent decline in weight.. I just somehow I always thought I’d be one of the lucky ones that either doesn’t gain much or loses it fairly effortlessly. But that’s enough dwelling on the bad. Here’s the good!

  • I currently sit at 147.2lbs, which is still a good 20 pounds over what I’m comfortable with, but I’m chipping away at it.
  • I am starting to fit back into size 6 jeans! There’s still a muffin top, so I’m sticking with my 8s for now.. but hey, they close! I’ll get back to size 4 eventually.
  • My face doesn’t really reflect my poundage. When I originally lost weight, my face was a lot chubbier and I didn’t see near as many bones on my body as I do now. The double chin only makes an appearance from very, very unfortunate angles.
  • I actually don’t mind my shape. Yep, there’s excess poundage, but given the right clothes, I’m pretty shapely.
  • No back fat! One of the things that I hated the most about being overweight back in the day did not make a return.
  • I feel the muscle in my arms and abs, it’s just covered by a layer of chub. Regardless, it’s there, waiting to be uncovered!

So all in all, I’m really not doing that badly. By summer, I should be back in my size 4s I hope! While I do have full body weight comparison shots, I won’t post them yet. I’ll post a comparison when I’m happy with myself, because really – I don’t need to dwell on how poofy I am – I just need to work on it. Take these pictures instead.

Could be much worse. :D

Day in the Life with my 3-month old

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Posted by Mandy | Posted in baby boy, challenges, life as mommy | Posted on 29-01-2012

7:58 Alarm rings. Had nightmare about killing own baby. Not good. Husband comes into bedroom to tell me good morning. I tell him about dream. He gets baby from his bed to show me he’s quite alive. Logan gives me big morning smile. Happy.

8:05 Getting baby’s bottle ready while he’s on the verge of being unhappy cause of hunger. Finally have bottle ready. Daddy goes to bed.

8:07 Feeding baby while I turn on Korean drama on Hulu. Hold hands with baby and relax. Do diaper after he’s had enough to not be starving.

8:37 Baby is done eating. We talk and play on the couch for a while. First up: tummy time, then we practice rolling off mommy.

9:05 Put baby on playmat for 10 minutes while I do the dishes my husband left.

9:15 Play with baby on playmat. Show him various toys. His new favorite is Baby Einstein’s music box thing.

9:30 Walk around house with baby. Show him the rain outside, the mirror, the kitchen & the Christmas tree that’s still up. Woops.

9:40 Put baby into swing for his nap. He falls asleep within 10 minutes. I make coffee and breakfast, go online, blog, check traffic, interact with my mom group, check news, read on the kindle, play triple town on phone, clean bottles and random kitchen things.

11:40 Baby wakes up. Get bottle ready, change his diaper, start feeding him while trusty Korean drama plays.

12:05 Baby is done eating. Play with him for a while, but he gets bored. Notice how incredibly dirty the floor is. Pick up entire floor and daddy’s desk while baby watches helps, then dig out the vacuum cleaner.

12:35
Vacuum whole lower story. Baby watches but does not like vacuum cleaner. Looks at me like vacuum is gonna eat me. Probably too loud. Feel sorry but want to get it done, so occasionally walk over to him and smooch him.

13:20 Done with cleaning. Put vacuum away, prep a 2 ounce top-off bottle for baby and sit down with him. Feed him a little, but he nods off pretty quickly.

13:35 Put baby into his swing for nap. He wakes up again when I put him down, talks to his mobile for a few minutes and then passes out again. Make a sandwich while he’s still awake.

13:50 Am a sweaty mess from vacuuming. Seize my chance and take a shower after he falls asleep.

14:25 Finish drying my hair and getting dressed. Walk back downstairs. Baby still asleep. Still hungry. Make another sandwich. Go online to check up on blogs, but get quickly distracted by phone game called Triple Town. Play this for remainder of the nap.

16:30 Wake up daddy. No luck, still pooped out. Fine. Go back downstairs.

16:35 Baby wakes. Prep bottle, change his diaper, start feeding. Realize I’m almost running out of Korean drama. Uh-oh.

16:55 Poopy. Clean diaper. BIG poopy. Resume feeding.

17:05 More tummy time on mommy. He tolerates it for a little, but quickly voices his unhappiness, so we move on to rolls.

17:30 Daddy comes downstairs. Daddy and baby have a chat. Cute. Am blubbery mess of happy watching them.

17:50 Baby stuck in perpetual unhappiness. Very unusual, especially after daddy is awake. Think vacuum must’ve been more scarring than originally thought.

18:00 Take baby upstairs to prep a bath. He likes baths. This should do the trick.

18:07 Undress baby and put him into bath. Am rewarded with happy squeals on both occasions. Yessss.

18:20 Finish up bath. Put baby into towel and massage him with lotion. Am still rewarded with happiness.

18:25 Put baby’s clothes back on. Sadness is threatening to make a return. Call daddy to take baby downstairs while I clean up the tub.

18:30 Go downstairs. Prep another bottle. Sit down with baby and daddy in office. Baby still cranky. Notice I’m hungry. Pass cranky baby off to husband after showing him trick of keeping baby happy temporarily (it’s to put him into his rock’n'play and pull him through the entire house at fast pace. Homeboy gonna be a racecar driver).

18:35 Make my dinner which consists of whole wheat rotini and ketchup. Healthy.

18:45 Eat. Daddy’s rocking baby.

18:55 Take baby. Feed him. Temporarily happy.

19:20 Baby done feeding. Entertain him with Baby Einstein’s music box thing and Sophie the Giraffe.

20:00 Time to make daddy’s dinner. Put rock’n'play into the kitchen and put baby into it. Entertain baby by talking about how he’s gonna be such a good kitchen help in the future. Am rewarded with huge happy baby squeals. Yessss.

20:05 Daddy tries to film the baby squeals. Foiled.

20:20 Daddy’s dinner is done. Make new bottle. Return to office with baby.

20:30 Feed baby. He’s sleepy and nods off for a few minutes.

20:40 Wake baby. Try a variety of things to keep him awake. Eventually settle on playmat.

21:00 Play with baby on playmat.

21:30 chomp on Sophie. That’s baby, not me.

21:40 Make new bottle. Only fill it up to 4oz. Feed baby.

22:00 Change baby’s diaper. Read a book. Start putting him down to sleep.

22:40 Baby is asleep in his rock’n'play. Hooray!

22:40 Have some mommy-daddy time.

23:20 Get ready for bed.

23:30 Read.

24:00 Lights out.

Usually, we try to go out once a day.. but with the crappy Seattle weather and Logan hating the cold (he’ll actually start crying 3 minutes after we get outside, even though he usually likes being outside… and yes, I do bundle him up well), this hasn’t been much of an option the past few weeks. Hopefully it’ll warm up soon.